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Who Decides When We Die? (Video)

Is our death date predetermined? Has Fate already decided when, how, and where we’re going to kick the bucket?

Does Source, our higher selves, or our spirit guides make that call? Or do we decide when we’re ready to release ourselves from the Earthly plane?

Check out the video for answers and give it a like, comment or subscribe to my channel.

If you would like to connect with your spirit guides and get answers about career, relationships, or health, book a psychic reading with me and we’ll see what they say.

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